Molli Your stories give hope. You are so strong for what you did. You are correct about the DBing, I think it goes on for life if you get back together. Even though this is painful, it sure has taught me a lot.
I am trying to be a friend to my H. Separated 7 months with not much conversation. As far as I can see, he doesnt mind me calling as long as its not too much or about "us".
I never tried the being a friend part. I went stright from persuit into going dark.
I was just wondering, how were conversations when he called? What did you talk about? Mostly him, did he ask questions about you? I want to learn how to have a good coversation without him feeling pressured. Any advice?
