Ok you just said it right here...what you need to be doing...but what you've said yourself you don't know if you can do it.
Quote: Basically what the Bible says it that if I meet her needs, then she will have the ability to meet mine. She will have the ability to "Desire" me.
I don't remember which BB you posted it on, but you did say at one point (not long ago) that you knew she had needs that you probably weren't meeting.....so according to what you just posted....you aren't holding up your end of this equation.
So what do you have to loose in trying to meet all of her needs? Is it a battle for control? Do you feel that she should just go first, even though she obviously doesn't view this as the problem that you do? Because...if you are waiting on her....you're going to be waiting a very long time.
I can GUARANTEE you if I had waited on my H to do something about our situation, I'd still be waiting.
