I understand that what you are saying about the Bible...I just might be a tad be more careful about how you phrase things LOL. I mean...you did say being LD was against biblical teachings
However...does it really help to refer to or try to quote the Bible in these instances? I mean, we are afterall human with our own beliefs, foibles, and feelings. An LD person cannot become HD just because the Bible (or any other document) says they should (which it doesn't). I don't think that's what you are saying, so don't think that. But even women in Biblical times had sex with their H's because it was their "duty", not because they wanted to. We've been doing that for thousands of years CeMar. But, big BUT here....what many of those women have done in the past (even in Biblical times) you have already stated would not be satisfactory for you...even if she did it because she loves you.
It really seems that you want all out passion or nothing. Can you tell me why she should feel this passion for you? What current behavior of yours do you feel would elicit passion from her? Is it just because you think she should have this because you do? If so, that's not how things work. These are serious questions I'm asking, so think about them.
It seems to me that you try to use things (like the Bible this time) to justify that you are right and she is wrong. If you continue doing this you will only make yourself more miserable in the situation you are in. This is not a right or wrong issue....this is an issue of compromise, communication and understanding.
The only way out of this is to get clear, concise communication flowing between you and your W. Without that you WILL NOT get out of this rut.
