Quote: And yes we've had that discussion also. It turned into a bible discussion...her typically creative way not to answer a question.
Speaking of the bibile...must be why so many of the bible men have mistresses and concubines...so to have a robust sexlife and a wife.
Log on to The Marriage Bed and you can see for yourself what the Good Book does, in fact, say and not say.
In a nutshell the only explicit prohibitions are S with people of the same gender (even if married to them per state or provincial laws); people to whom one is not married; blood relatives (even if married to them); and animals. For married couples, pretty much anything goes.