Okay, after a little more thought. Since this is the avenue your W chooses to use, ask her to pray WITH YOU about it, not FOR you, but with you and to help the relationship in this matter. She should be up for this. Don't let her judge you, and a good comeback for someone who is dead set on judging you on an bible issue is just to say you will ask God about it when you get to Heaven, that no one will know for sure until then.
