Yes I have asked...and the response is always overwelming Yes she loves me and would do anything for me...
As for the 'maybe they really are LD'...too bad! is my answer. Forever, we men have been told to change, be sensitive, talk, share.....for what...what if we just really are ....er, ah...MEN! And for HD women, you've been told to be quiet, understand, not be so sharing, so emotional...er, ah...you're Women!
don't mean to jump on anyone here. But I noted all these LD spouses on here will do most things but enjoy sex. Nice, that's like showering your kids with everything, money, etc except your time with them...it's all fake.
And yes we've had that discussion also. It turned into a bible discussion...her typically creative way not to answer a question.
Speaking of the bibile...must be why so many of the bible men have mistresses and concubines...so to have a robust sexlife and a wife. In many other countries, Europe and South America this set up is very common. I guess they just realized that a spouse and a sex life are different things and have learned to lived with it.
