Quote: After all the work, begging, standing on our heads, does any "LD" mate finally fess up to "I really don't like you"...and then let all of us get to solving the real problem?
Well yes and no. My h did a few years back decide to tell me he didn't feel about me the way a man should feel about his wife...that "it" was never there etc. of course most of that would be termed "alien speak" since he was involved with ow at the time. Thing is instead of being devestated by the news that my husband didn't see me as a woman, a weight was lifted...it explained all the lack of desire, rejection etc I had felt for years. Sure I was sad at the potential break up of the family (son was just to turn 3 and dd was a mere 6 months old when he moved out) But alas the confusion has returned...upon HIS decision to return to me he once again saw me as a woman, a viral sexual woman worthy of his attention AND affection but apparently has returned to no longer seeingme that way.
SO it really doesn't solve the problem to hear that they really don't like you unless they mean it and stay away forever.
