by inability I don't mean the act itself. Because he is a good lover. When we do make love I try to feed his ego and make him feel good by telling him this. But unability to satisfy means I don't consider twice a week sex fullfilling by any means. And he only seems to intiate when I have complained a whole lot. Then it feels more like pity sex.
I have talked with daughter and mentioned all you suggested. She does know she is not to blame. She is just saddened and don't want to see it end. I guess like most children would be.
Husband knows this is something that won't be tolerated. He seems though to really be trying to push boundaries with me lately. Like I had to work over the weekend. He knows I don't want the children to be in a car with anyone that has been drinking. Well, I go to a work and he goes to a friends of ours house. A married couple who also has kid's and he drank. I called there let him know I was pissed off and told him I would be there to get the kid's. He left and drove them home anyway. We had a knock down screaming fight and he said he is almost 40 he doesn't need boundaries. He told me he carefully monitored having a couple drinks and didn't drink for the last hour he was there. He said he felt sober and would never have trusted himself if he felt buzzed at all. I was still pissed. I told him I am giving a two week notice at work. Because my kid's need obviously need me. Do you think that was blowing it out of proportion? He seems to be on this real control thing lately. Like pushing me to the limits.
I have told him I don't want sex with him anymore. I think it was the best decision I made for me. I no longer feel angry at him in this department. It has helped me to focus on a whole lot more. I am smiling more and happier. Enjoying more things. It has helped me to look back at the situation and be able to even analyze me. I know I need to work on me and that is what I am doing.
