Quote: Forgot to mention something else. My husband was talking to our daughter who is 15. She asked him if we were fighting. He said yes. If your mom is unhappy and wants out I won't stand in her way. She said where has mom been going lately. He said I don't know she doesn't tell anyone. Which last time I went out they knew exactly who I was with or what I was doing. I am only trying to change the fact that my husband and I usually do everything together. So that is what the kid's are used to. I want to be more independent and do things I use to love. Have an outside life apart from him.
Well, during this long conversation he tells daughter there is a 20 year old at work that flirts with him. That he could have her anytime!! I was SOOO ticked! I told him and confronted him. I said our daughter is not your bar room buddy to discuss something like that. Daughter told him that is gross your old enough to be her dad. I think his only intent on this was to try somehow to make me jealous. Which I wasn't at all.
I am sorry to just butt in on this, but this really bothers me.
Saying this to kids is just way over the top...and to drag the kids into this with statements like that is sick (please excuse my frankness).
Has he really addressed this issue with you?
Do you have a strong sense of trust between him and the kids?
Personally, I would have really thought about getting the kids out of there if he is playing this nonsense.
