Dr JL,

I think the one core value that I cherish more than anything in my marriage is the "trust" we have. It's the foundation of our marriage. I think my willingness to limit my behavior, talk about the dumb things I do etc. is to preserve that trust. She makes me feel like I can tell her anything without being judged. She has been treating me in a way that she wants to be treated. She may not verbalize what she expects, but she's leading by example. I just started to understand this in the past year and have been trying really hard to stop being judgmental and untrusting of her (her motives, etc).



Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time -Steven Wright