I've still felt like someone with a healthy, horny body who is missing out on one of the joys of living.
As my C says..."Ask your H first, then do everything within your moral framework to have the hot sex life".
She never said what activities she's talking about. Is she advocating infidelity? How do you define infidelity? Some here seem to think MB is akin to infidelity. Is an affair an "affair" if you have been given permission? Or does that label you as "separated", "swinging" or "open"? NOP has some definite opinions on this and my guy agrees with him. My boundaries allow me to go into a bar, socialize, even flirt. But I *know* down deep in my heart, that I wouldn't "close the deal" with anyone. Maybe some of us have a better sense of self-control than others. Maybe that's why I'm libertarian. Crap, maybe some people really need religion to keep themselves in control. Wow...I'm off on a rant. sorry mojo.
(I'm sorry cally, I've never seen a thread get hijacked like this before...we've now got 2 threads going in one...hmmm).
Anywhere is walking distance if you have the time
-Steven Wright
