You gave some great advice. It may be the same but let me explain what I mean by not satisfying me sexually. When we have sex he is very giving and a good lover. So the cat itself is satisfying and I always tell him this. It is the quantity that don't sexually satisfy me.
You put this in perspective for me. Your right I don't do any good by belittling him. That is my biggest fault. I have just gotten to this point where I am so angry and bitter. It even scares me. It's like I just don't know what to do anymore accept just end the marriage.
