Yes for sure I am prepared to leave the marriage if things don't improve. I am prepared to set boundaries. I have set some boudaries but don't think I am doing it right or he just don't listen to anything. I have told him I didn't want him masturbating. I asked him to let himself see if his appetite would return to normal if he did this. I asked him to come to me for sexual release if he needed one even if it meant he just wanted a hand job or me to masturbate him. I have told him any kind of sexual contact I have with him is fullfilling to me even if it is a quicky. But he still choses the MB more then we have sex.
I have also asked him in the past if we could set the number of times we have sex to twice a week. Waaaay more often then not that never happens.
It always seems though if I put consequences on him he gets defensive and says leave if your not happy. His famous saying I won't kiss your butt but uses the other word.
