My GUESS is that now that he has you he doesn't want you. He's looking for his next conquest. He is not low drive, but either normal drive or even high drive. He MB because he doesn't want to be with you. He may be sticking around only because of your daughter.
This is instructive to me - it's helping me to figure some stuff out. We start with the assumption that our spouses actually want to be with us and have a good marriage and are willing to make it work. This is not necessarily the case.
When the spouse isn't engaged in the marriage process the trick is to become strong, independent and somehow get that knife out of your heart. Being distant and out of reach is irresistable to some people. Still, I don't like playing such games.
