Why Would a Married Man Do This?

[NOPkins]

Hi, Corri.

I try to never deal or live in fear, only facts and potentialities. I personally hate fear. I certainly don't want to bully anyone.

If people were capable of walking around the planet, taking full responsibility for all their actions, we would need no laws. Each of us is ultimately responsible for our actions, in that we must answer for them, but there is no one perfect on this planet.

My statement is also NOT a 'morals cop'. I personally don't care what your, or anyone else's morals are, as long as your choices don't impact others. Meat shopping in a bar does impact others, I don't care if 'everyone else is doing it' or not. That isn't policing morals, that is simply a bad idea - common sense.

I agree that we should all observe our personal responsibilities. Exactly how does one know precisely how much to drink before ones inhibitions drop to the floor? How much can one drink, on any given day before that person is legally unfit to drive? How often are innocent people killed by drunk drivers?

I am talking about common sense, Corri, not morals or fear. If you are high or drunk, you are much more likely to make a responsibility mistake than if you are working with a clear mind.

Unless you are there to get laid, a bar is a dumb place to exercise your lack of "fusion", regardless of how enlightened, or how "differentiated" a person thinks they are.

As for Dave's situation being special in some way, I disagree. Maybe he and his wife are close to some Schnarchian version of sainthood, but brother and sister Theresa, they aren't.

Lastly, I am not suggesting that they should be attached at the hip. I AM suggesting that rather than 'differentiation' or 'fusion', they are dangerously close to a lack of basic respect for each other.

I hope you are doing well, Corri. I have missed hearing from you.

All the best,
-NOPkins-