I was going to post to you point by point. I don't think you could 'hear' me, if I did. So, I am going to keep it very simple.
That little voice you are hearing is the only one not lying to you. You are off on a tangent, that will destroy your marriage.
Unless you change the dynamics of your relationship, one or both of you will have an affair within the next year. It will most likely be your wife. You think you could handle this. You will not be able to.
She can find a guy like you, a lot easier than you can find a girl like her.
I also take extreme issue with the both of you using other people for your personal games and gain. Bad form. It WILL bite you in the ass if you (both of you) continue.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
