THANK YOU for sort of validating me some. I think I have difficulty explaining things sometimes and it's great when someone helps.
You nailed it with the "socially acceptable" boundaries bit. I think that's what I'm getting at. I think when I said "I'm not trying to sound like some swinger" was my attempt to acknowledge that the freedoms we allow each other are probably going to be despised by most people.
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-Steven Wright