quote: ------------- NOP, I don’t think anyone is arguing that there need to be boundaries in a sexual relationship that are mutually acceptable. I think Dave is making the point that, sometimes, those boundaries aren’t the obvious ones that society expects us to have. We all have deep, dark places inside of us and we can either choose to share them with our spouse or pretend that they don’t exist. What is the point of communication if we are only allowed to say what our spouse wants to hear? -------------
My point is exactly that the boundaries need to be negotiated. So, I am missing exactly what point it is that you disagree with me on.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
