Just how is Cally supposed to handle this situation? You initially suggested she join in on his porn activities. First of all, if she's an HDW she's likely tried this tactic already with no results.
What is a healthy way to handle the fact that your husband exclusively masturbates and has now turned to looking for real women as a way to get his fix?
I gotta tell you, it icks me out. I think the way men jealously guard their porn is disgusting. Like it is an actual entity that they hold in their hand, petting it, and snarling at anything that gets too 'close'. Yuck.
Cally's husband has a real live woman--that he is MARRIED to--and this is his preference.
I'm not sure how she should proceed from here but saying, "He'll do it if he wants to anyway" is not wise, imo, it is defeatist and detached.
