I don't know if this will make you feel any better. I'm a Law Enforcement Officer and we keep tabs on AFF(Adult Friend finder) in an effort to track Sex offenders. I'm a Parole Officer.
What I can tell you is this. 99% of the people on there are NOT real. Most of it is a scam trying to get you onto porn sites.
IE Ms twenty-something drops you an email and says visit her at her private site and she'll give you her real email address.
It's a huge scam and I'm sure your hubby doesn't know that though, hehe. Now if it's match.com or yahoo personals thats something else.
