Choosing to get yourself off in exclusion of sex with your spouse or partner is a sure sign of trouble on the horizon.
Actively searching out sexual avenues outside of the relationship is a bona fide red flag that the relationship is about to tank. Mr. or Ms. Entitlement has entered the picture.
Way more relationships are broken by 'sexually selective availability' than are relationships where a biblical 'ownership' is practiced. At least that has been my observation. Having said that, I don't have a problem with masturbation in the right circumstance, especially when it is the only release, or the only safe release available.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
