Dave,

Thanks for responding, but...."So Gel, in your situation, he might just be fantasizing", it's not my situation, it's Cally's I was merely asking to get some clarification on how someone could do this and their spouse should try to not be threatened by their actions.

For me, I would still have a BIG problem with this. It's still one thing to surf the web and MB to pictures your find there, even if they are real everyday attainable women....for me however it's still a completely different thing to register on a website and surf their local area for women. Sorry, don't mean to be stubborn about this.

I believe I do understand what you are saying, I just really do feel that if he's doing this then if he hasn't already gone outside of the marriage that possibility is something he's considering.

Thanks for trying to clarify it for me though, I appreciate that

GEL

Well behaved women rarely ever make history!