For me it wasn't that he was MB'ing...or looking at porn. The thing that tripped my trigger is his choice of website and local. He is choosing to view women in his area....sorry, for me that REALLY crosses a line.
I'm a pretty open-minded person. But the fact that he's choosing to look at women he could actually pursue in person for me would be a HUGE THREAT!
Can you try to put a spin on that so I can understand where he may be coming from?
