Just wanted to lend my support. My H has refused to ML to me for the past 5 yrs - the one time in the last 7 yrs we did ML we ended up conceiving our twin boys.
A while back, I realized that H was looking at porn - a lot of it, and has been probably from the beginning. What really got me was that in spite of the fact that we were supposedly talking about things, trying to work on things, he continued to look.
If I had discovered he was also looking at dating sites...I too probably would have thrown the computer at him. Though, to be honest, I would probably have been too nice, and given him the benefit of the doubt...
I hope your H is better at admitting his mistakes than mine has been, and I honestly hope you two are able to come to an understanding - but it's going to be a long, hard road.
