You asked if I had denied one of his advances....I would have to say nope. He is the low drive spouse. So he gets the best of both worlds I always say. He gets sex whenever he wants because I am so starved for it usually that when he intitiates he is never turned down. And he gets to love the fact that he can lazily masturbate and not put any energy into it inbetween his every two week advance that he may want sex with a real woman.
If I caught him which I would doubt in the act, he would try to cover it up. He always looks at it when I am at work or gone. He tries to hide it well. If I said to him you want the real thing....Gosh this is terrible and depressing because I can't imagine saying that to my husband. Because he would not be eager or show any desire if I did say that. Once upon a time I did say things like that.
