Cally: Did he (however unwittingly) initiate when you weren't in the mood? Or did you refuse one of his advances? Understand that I am not trying to defend or excuse him. For whatever it's worth, internet is always available. As for his chioce, some prefer amateurs as opposed to those silicon princesses. As for what to do, calling him on it is a good start. Another idea: when you catch him at it, ask if he'd prefer the real thing [wink, wink, nudge, nudge].