You know, even if he WAS looking "out of curiousity," can't you just say to him, "This hurts me, and it hurts our relationship. If it doesn't stop, I'll a)leave, b)kick your as$ out c) get rid of our internet connection, and/or all of the above"?

Just a suggestion.

By the way, are you the same cally who live 10 minutes from me, with the hot bod, who's on adultfriendfinder.com. JUST KIDDIN'!

Hairdog