Hoo boy, LNL! I think I've said this before .... just when you think you've let go, they try and reel you in. I have to keep reminding myself to leave that rope on the ground. DO NOT pick it up, STEP AWAY from the rope.

As to the child sharing (is that an appropriate word?) - one of you has to be the responsible one, no matter how frustrating it is to be the one who is. One day, your H will know on some level what he has lost, while you have moved on with your life. He seems to still be floundering around, trying to find his footing.

My separation is fast approaching, and my H and I are still in the same bed. He says he likes to cuddle with me. I want to scream sometimes that this is one of the things he is giving up, but I don't. I just shrug and say to myself that I may as well enjoy the moments while I have them and then move on when it's time.

Have an awesome weekend!

Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim