I think you just need to let her know that disrespectful behavior is not acceptable. Let her know that you will treat her with love and respect and you expect the same from her. My problem is with whining. I let D8 know that when she is able to speak to me without whining, I will be happy to listen to her. It may be a losing battle, but at least she knows what is expected.
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