My absolutely natural instinct would be to cheerfully send H the ingredient. It is how I am, kind of helpful when it is within my power to be so, and also eager to please. One way I 'loved' H was to cook him fab meals. It is what I can do well, and a way of showing him that I love him.
But I have been feeling so darn USED of late...
Is it healthy to go on giving and being obliging in the face of such rotten treatment and indifference?
Thoughts?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates