Ellie, I'll try your theory on for size, but....

OW2 lives in another country hundreds of (a thousand?) miles away. I think her being there must have had something to do with H wanting her there???

God knows what is going on between the two of them, but I have stopped trying to speculate.

All I know from my end is that I don't think I want 'friendship' as such. I am happy for us to do certain things together with D, but I won't pretend that friendship alone is perfectly OK with me in the long term.

How many separated or divorced couples truly manage friendship in the long term, I wonder? Not many that I know.

Livnlearn


"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates