Watch, as I attempt the notoriously dangerous alien mind-reading trick! (Do NOT try this at home )

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This evening, H rang. First, he mentioned ordering a video for me, one that he was going to get me ages ago, but there was some problem about the format and its compatability with my player. Anyway, he said it was ordered, and would arrive in time for my birthday. Well, knock me down with a feather - he remembered that my birthday is coming up? I was wondering whether he would even notice.




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He emailed again, to apologise for her coming down early as it was more conventient, liftwise.

That must be a first, emailing to apologise for something I have not even made a comment about




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Then he asked me about how long I had stayed with the friends in the hills. When I told him, he said, oh, I thought you would stay up the whole time, not just a couple of days. Again, why would he care???




Wild guesses here, but -
imagine, for a moment, that he HAD had intentions of having you up over the break. Then OW barges in. And you inform him you have other plans. Fun-sounding plans. So. he's stuck there with clingy OW, wondering about you and all the fun you are having (and Hmmm - you were home part of that time and hadn't asked to come up to his place during that time? Maybe he's feeling he missed yet another opportunity to have you up? Could you even have - God forbid! - come home to go on a DATE with some MAN while he was stuck with OW????)

And so - you being busy GAL, doing fun things, NOT clinging or asking what happened to the Easter invite - blowing his image of you desperately waiting for him - seems to be getting the results of him remembering yourbirthday AND apologizing for something!

Ellie