This info is eye opening. Did the info say if M to a man with this was doomed forever? (I hope not, since my H is a close match for this). Tough concept to understand you are never really in this mans world only an asset to dispose of (if I read all the info right).
Quote: I have always been aware of my H's characterstics and shortcomings for the most part, and thought they were not serious (enough) things to worry about. They did not include physical abuse and stuff like that. But they are things that will not allow a real and intimate relationship in the long term. I always imagined that somehow things would pan out, just somehow, anyhow.
The somehow just never happens though, does it? I'm in the midst of this as well... Just enuf to keep you around and hoping for change???
I appreciate you sharing this info. How do you DR this, or should you?
