Cultivating Self Love

[Livnlearn]

I just enjoyed a few hand made chocolates and have made myself a cup of tea.

I really need to sort out the two strands of the OW2 and sleeping arrangements issue.

Forget being hurt by H and jealous that he has OW2 to stay, when he could have his family together over Easter. (Now I know why he grandly ignored my email suggestion to stay here a couple of days.)

I am beginning to think he really does not deserve me, he really doesn't. I don't want such a man in my life full time - one who is so far gone. Sorry.

The issue is more about D and what her Dad thinks is OK for her. I think I need to speak to her about stuff. But I don't want her to be piggy in the middle either.

How does one play fair when one's opponent doesn't play fair? My hand is tied behind my back, as far as not dragging D into our quarrel.

Where do I draw the line between not interferring in H's life and protecting my D from this shoddy situation? He is behaving like a dog.

Any suggestions?

I have it in mind to email OW2 and ask her if she doesn't have any self respect? I couldn't imagine going out with a guy and sleeping in is bed with his young daughter there too. Just too creepy.

Livnlearn