You know, it is only when it comes to the crunch, when there is a need, that we find out who our friends (and faithful spouses) are, indeed.
I have also had someone come over shortly afer the bomb to hear all the gory details (and pass on some tidbits about what H had said to her) before she had lost interest. Not a single invite in the last two years, although she did say she was sorry she hadn't been there for me! Good thing I had already sussed out she was no friend of mine, so I had no expectations!
Moving Forward, if it is any consolation, you don't have kids with your H, so you don't have to be continually dragged back into the mess for ever after.
I hope you feel you have lots of potential for meeting someone really worthwhile to build a life together with.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
