I agree with the 'kind but FIRM' statement. I will be practicing that in the future in my sitch too.

LnL, I am so impressed with you. Do you have a feeling of freedom, and 'lightness of being'? Do you feel you have finally taken control of your life? It's the way I feel at the moment. I have given up my victimhood, and taking control.

Hope the meeting at the bank goes well. Oh boy, these WAS's have no idea the kind of strong, courageous people they are giving up. Their loss, 'eh!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim