LNL I am so proud of you. I know its a hard decision to reach but there is absolutely nothing wrong with saying ENOUGH.
I have not wanted to say this but I see a lot of the same personality traits in your H as mine. The anger, trying to control everything, not seeming to really care. Trying to deal with someone like that is emotionally draining.
Be prepared to waiver. I've done it. Sometimes late at night I am overcome with wanting to try again to make it work but I realize that it is just fear of the unknown talking and not a real desire to reconcile. Every time that happens I remind myself of all of the horrible things he has done and I am right back to dumping his butt.
You are going to be OK. Actually you will be better than OK, you are going to be great.
