Quote: Now - here's a thought - why not tell H that you ARE going out of town for the Easter break, and since he can't arrange a ride up for D, he needs to come down and stay with her at the house because you will be GONE. I know - you don't like the idea of him staying there - BUT - staying there while you are out having a great time with friends - and leaving some clues about a "mystery man" around the house - might piques his interest AND get him away from w3.
I think you are getting mixed up and I didn't make it clear. D is due to go up for this weekend. Then again over Easter, which runs from next Thursday till the following Tuesday. To date I don't know the dates she will be up over Easter. And I still don't know whether she is going up for the day or the weekend tomorrow.
I was frankly looking forward to time off. Maybe going out on Saturday evening, you know?
I don't want to have H down here with D while I am away. I could NOT stomach him seeing OW1 with D, or having her over here. Seeing as he hasn't ever apologised for having OW2 over here depsite my express wish against it, I don't think H 'gets it' yet. It is a mere inconsequential detail to him, nothing more. He won't do/not do anything that inconveniences him.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
