He pays all D's expenses - I worked out what she on her own costs over the course of a year, plus 60% of the mortgage.

I pay 40% of the mortgage, the utility bills (madam D loves long long hot showers, and getting her out is always a stressful challenge!) and of course all 'my' stuff. We also split certain house tax bills.

H is not a man who works long hours. Just a couple of days ago he was telling me about going for a walk in the early afternnon with w3. The day before he had lunch at her place. Even now he bsoasts about how he finishes so much work in only so many hours.

He wants to work less, so pressures me to work more!

I would be happy to work more if the work came my way. The work that comes my way these days seems to be linked to inordinate amounts of stress.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates