LNL,

Sigh. This road seems to be neverending, doesn't it? The selfishness and "it's all about me" attitude?

Do we get to vote?

If so, I vote that you make your plans first--heading up to see your friends--and tell your crazy H something along these lines: "You mentioned wanting D for Easter and spring break, and I'm so glad that it works out for you! Can I send her up on XXX?"

And then know in your heart that you need the break as much as D needs some time with him too.

Hugs!

Betsey

"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."

Albert Einstein