Pam, I want to thank you for your thread. Because of it, I took the time to re-read Proverbs yesterday and it brought me so much peace! Proverbs 5, 6 & 7 reminded me that there are consequences to adultery -- and my STBXH is living them. No reason I should live them, too!
All the best to you. Sounds like the financial ball is rolling. Good for you.