I don't know what to say. I would like things to go well for you.
I have experienced little glimmers of 'niceness' from H in the past year, little gifts of nice bread or something, but it has never lead to any sustained movement in my direction.
I would suggest you play it pretty cool with your H. If he really is moving closer to you, he knows the way! Let him do some of the work.
Hope you had a nice Easter Sunday.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates