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For me The best way to act "as if" is to NOT CARE about the final out come of your situation.

Once you believe this you can be happy, friendly and loving because you will have a GREAT life no matter what happens.


I WISH I would get to this point and STAY there, sometimes I get it, I just don't keep it!

Know what you mean about your heart on your sleeve Pam. I did the same thing when still married to D.

I think Gerry has given some great advice here and if you can manage it you will be a lot better off.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"