Hi Pamilla... all i can say you is that my h also turne to be a different irresponsible, awfull man you wrote about your h... and now is the same old olfk, or at least very similar of the man i marriage, responsible, always caring about his familly, although we still have many many problems as a couple...!!... My h used and stil use to lay on me all the reasons of his nsatifactions or bad results... so... thats man... so easy mind.. so selfish.. when we were separate i handle situation different and maybe bc that horrible man he change out, i introduce divorce demand and began legal issue inmediatly... so, while i do that, he suddenly ask for a reconciliation... Sometimes i thnk maybe with that acttitude i force him to return, and not to think clearly about what he really wants and what he can give me bc the problems arte still between us... Just a reflextion i wants to share with you... i envy you bc all the improves for yourself in your life... Andrea
