BlondeQT, I am so sorry your are hurting so much right now. I'm not in much better shape - I do fully understand now why the heart is used in reference to love - it physically HURTS doesn't it? ALl I can say is - f**** them, they deserve each other, and when it all comes crashing down around them YOU won't be in danger because you will be far, far away from their emotional time bomb, enjoying your own life and getting sympathy from everybody who knows you and the both of you. I am praying for you praying for you sending healing vibes your way sending comfort your way.