Hey Blonde,

Hang in there. Keep being happy around H. Give him lots of space and time. If you detach, GAL, and be happy--you may be able to keep him at home. If he feels safe there he may not feel like he needs to leave while he sorts this out.

While he is there, make sure you look good. Go out, do things for you. Are you doing 180s?
Remember to take one day at a time, be patient.
Sherry