Oh Blonde! I'm so sorry you are hurting so much! Remember, YOUR life is not over and your life TOGETHER may not be over yet either. This is a bump in the road. I'm so sorry your H decided to make the mean statements. It wasn't really necessary. He obviously said them just to make himself feel better and to justify why he was leaving. (This is only in his own tiny mind ya know. Again, I'm sorry you are hurting and will be checking back in often to make sure you are ok. Hang in there!
