You are doing the right thing. You are fighting for your M. Unfortunately, we have to do all the work and it sucks. We do not get any praise or appreciation or just a pat on the back. But, we have to keep plugging along hoping someday they will notice. That day will make it all worthwhile.
I have been struggling with the same feelings you are having. I am slowly getting back on track. I want to feel like I did everything possible when I look back (for me and my kids).
Unfortunately, only you can decide when to quit. Really think about what you want. It was hard when my H left. The first night was horrible( he was only gone one night). I had detached and thought I could handle it, but I wasn't ready for it. I am working on really detaching, so if it happens again I am really ready for it.
So think about it and Detach and GAL!!!! That does make it easier.
