Well H and I talked last night....he still was ignoring me and keeping to himself in a solemn manner. He told me that he is not sure if he can ever fall back in love with me...Ouch! He said that he doesnt think that things can ever get better...he is very negative lately. He said that there is no OW anymore but he feels that he has just given up on us. I told him that people need to work on R they dont always come easy. If there is no communication of each others needs then how can the other S understand what the other needs. He told me again that he feels trapped and he needs more space....he also said that I have been goiving him his own space....but he thinks that it will go back to the same thing again....well boo hoo hoo! :-) He said that he knows that he will be poor and his entire life will change if he leaves. I told him that I cant stop that all I can say is that I have given my all to work through this and if I dont know all of his other needs and wants...then I cant help anymore. I said good night and the went and cried myself to sleep... I want to be happy I would love to be happy with him...but I really want to be my old self....the hapy outgoing girl....not just for me but for my daughter. I need assistance....I dont know where to go now....What type of DBing should I do now....is it over....or can things still change. Does anyone have any suggestions.
I want to be happy I would love to be happy with him...but I really want to be my old self....the hapy outgoing girl....not just for me but for my daughter. I need assistance....I dont know where to go now....What type of DBing should I do now....is it over....or can things still change. Does anyone have any suggestions.
