One time in the heat of battle, I told my wife that maybe I'd call or confront the OP and she calmly said if that's what I wanted to do, that I could go ahead. She then said that she didn't know what that would accomplish but if it would make me feel better, do it. I dropped it after that. It seemed too easy for her to say it's OK, it made me feel weird about it. The thing is, she's right. What would it accomplish? Nothing really.
